I have been with my boyfriend for all four years of high school and now im in my freshmen year of college. before college started i toke a family trip home and ended up meeting a perfect guy that respects and loves me, no matter what. Before my trip my ex had always treated me like crap, and i put up with it. he has cheated on me before, lied all the time, sometimes “accidently” hurt me (not too bad) and has never really had respect for me. so when i left for my trip, we were already on bad terms. so anyways, i met this wonderful man and even though we have a long distance relationship its going great. I broke up with my ex right when me and my new guy got together (only to be fair to him). Now im back home, in school and my ex is driving me crazy. non-stop calling, always showing up at my school and begging and crying, making scenes. I cant live like this! my long-term boyfriend is coming to visit next month. my ex has found ways to call him and threaten him and has tried begging for me back. even if i tried, i could never forgive my ex for all the pain i went through and i cannot get over my long-term relationship. HOW CAN I GET HIM TO LEAVE ME ALONE, STOP TRASHING MY REP, AND TO JUST GET OVER IT ALREADY. i already tried no contact, but he finds ways. im really scared for his health, im scared for him mostly. i care to the point that i wish he wasnt hurting and that he wont hurt himself, but i dont know how to just end all of this. i just want to be happy! PLEASE HELP.

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me last year and he said it’s because i lied. We hated each other for almost half a year and now we are best friends and he calls me his best friend he also walks by me and looks at me and it’s really cute! He is always text-ing me and I really like him again! He is a sweetie but I don’t know how to step up our relationship. I’m trying to bring up places where I’m going like me and my friends are going to the zoo. I asked him if maybe he would come with because it would be really fun! I don’t know what else to do! Please help me! P.s He is a skateboarder and plays soccer.