How to win ex back? First of all I am sorry for what you are going through, breaking up is always hard. Even if you are the only one wanting to be in this relationship right now, it is still possible.

It does not matter what your past look like, what matter is that you CAN have a future with your ex.

The single most important thing when you try to win your ex back is to have a plan. You need to know what to say and do to be able to win your ex back.

How to win ex back? It will take some work and effort from your side, but what you have been doing so far, trying to get back together with your ex, has it worked? When we answer the question how to win ex back our selves, it does make sense to try to contact your ex everyday, it does make sense to beg them to come back, it does make sense to tell them over and over again that you love them… But is this the best way to go?

How to win ex back, what NOT to do:

1. Contact your ex constantly – calling, texting and visiting constantly will not get your ex back, this will only push your ex further away from you.

2. Begging – begging will not work either. You want your ex to come back to you because he/she wants to not out of pity for your.

3. Act desperate in any way.

How to win ex back, what you need to do:

1. Agree with the break up – even if you do not, you need to let go of your ex before you can ever have him/her back. You need to let your ex know that you are totally fine with the break up and that you actually think this is the best for both of you. You want to be on the same side as your ex, you want to agree with your ex, not argue.

2. Make yourself “unavailable” for your ex – the truth is we want what we can not have. Do not call, visit or text your ex and he/she will start to think about you. Wondering what you are up to, if you are over the relationship, if you are maybe seeing somebody else… If he/she contacts you be nice but short, tell your ex that you will get back with him/her. So if what you are doing right now, to try to win your ex back, working for you fine stick with that but if not, fallow the above steps and I promise you will get a great “start” to getting your ex back.

There is more steps to how to win ex back, find out what they are right here!

Find out what your next move should be in our VIDEO.

Ok so I broke up with my ex-boyfriend like 3 months ago but i think that he wants to get back together with me but i don’t want to get back together with him. How do I tell himthat without breaking the friendship?